Read it Loud.......... (#Happiness is not a destination")

" Man is not the creature of circumstances; 

Circumstances are the creatures of men."

-BENJAMIN DISRAELI

Living in a "comfort zone" and postponing all the actions that we think, we need to take right now- is a common nature of a human behaviour. This creates the habit of procrastination and we become slave of our comfort zone. Can we get out of  the habit of procrastination and embrace the habit of "doing it now"? We can start the process with at least two or three actions that has been pending for long but you know that its very important to do but somehow it has been pending and  not done till today. 

• Put in down in a paper- write all the three actions that has been pending but you think is important. For example- you may be wants to lose some weight or wants to wake up early or wants to stop smoking.
• In next step,  ask yourselves- why you are not taking any action on this?  and then you write down the answer  you think against the actions. It may be a simple answer like not getting time to do exercise (for losing weight) or my job is too stressful (for stop smoking) and so on.....  
• Once you done with that, you now need to think of probable circumstances if you don't start taking action against each of them.. its should  not a be shallow observations, you need to think deeply and think of its negative impact that will arise over the next two, three, four or five years? The negative impact be in terms of your health, finance or career or family....  what does that make you feel....

Take a break ......

• Now you need to put down  neatly all the happiness and feeling of pleasure you will start to get by taking the actions right now... make a long and details list of good outcomes & imagine the new person in your mind..

You make take out some time to do this exercise, or you may wait till God comes to you and make the changes you desire...:)

Live with satisfaction.........

Story of a happy soul...........💮

Do you feel satisfied or a feeling of meaninglessness creeps your mind some times..... in the process of making a living, are we forgetting our sole meaning of existence?

Living a life by running after the daily needs and to-do's, our life become monotonous. Slowly and unknowingly a feeling of meaninglessness grow inside your mind.... we feel distracted..we feel energyless and may feel lack of motivation to try new things....

To overcome this situation, first we need to understand and find out our sole meaning of existence. We can't find the meaning of life in  outside world or someone else can help us to find. Meaning of life is - something that we define and decide to dedicate our life for.... If we can't dedicate ourself to any meaningful work, we will never be able to feel content. Whatever we may be doing to make a living, ( as only 1% of human being is lucky to have a job or work that's belongs to his hobby)  if that is not in co-relation with your souls desire,  you will continue to feel restless or helplessness. It is not possible for all of us to leave the things that we currently doing for living and start something that our souls desires to do. Because, may be at that stage of life,  it would not be possible to start from a grassroots level again.  Then where is the way out......

Please put your life story or point of view on comment section on how to lead a meaningful life. ...

Happiness is not a destination---------

The other day I was thinking of how to be happy. Every other day , we think of or  dreamt of being happy oneday. But we rarely take out some time out of our busy schedule to think what are the things that will make us Happy. Even if we are not happy with our current job, or whatever we are doing to make our living we keep on telling to our self that we be happy one day. But the reality is we will not reach the so called state of happiness if we can't figure out what makes us happy.....  

Happiness can't be attained with materials or the big house or the car that we dreamt off. Happiness is a state of mind that we need to create with in our mind. If we closely observe our thought process everyday, we will find that our mind is highly influenced by the environment, where we live. If someone says good things about  our-self we feel good for the day...or other day if someone says bad things or not properly behaved with us, we feel unhappy for the whole day. First and foremost basic area where we need to keep a close observation is of our thoughts. If we learn the art of consciously observing our thoughts we can regulate and keep our mind out of the negative thoughts. Whenever we feel angry or unhappy we need to ask our-self does really this things matter to me, or is it so important that we can't ignore it. Once we attain this habit of controlling our thought process, we will win half of the race....  to be continued...

Truth of Life!!!