Know yourself to know the world!

 “It’s does not matter, where you are coming for, all that matter is where you are going”- Brian Tracy

I am here today to let you guys give a prospective about how your own thinking decide what you will achieve in your life. It's not your education nor your background but only and only your thoughts.

To grow and develop yourself, you should know your own potential. You should know your purpose. You should know that one thing, that one thing, if you are asked to do or will love to do endless time, without feeling bored or drained out.

The problem lies here, many of us never tried to know our self or may be do not even know any methods to know our own self. In today's era of Facebook, Instagram and snapchat, we are so occupied with other's notion and hypnotize by the showbiz of the media and content creator that we are constantly try to imitate others and focus on getting instant gratification through likes and view. In doing so, many of us feel demotivated or developed low self-esteem in course of time. Main reason for this is, because you give yourself to hand of other people to decide your worth. If other like your post, you feel good and try do that again, but if you don't get that, you feel demotivated and mental asylum.

If you are reading this, you are one among those, who has realized that, it’s time to get out of the red zone and start with something that is valuable and satisfying in nature. To start with, first thing is to know yourself with few simple steps. I can promise, if follow the steps as you read this, you will feel the difference and develop a deep sense of self-worth and will feel motivated to start something that you have kept for long to begin with.

Here we go, in this step, you go back to your childhood and start writing your experience or achievement in below format-

1.       The experience that you have learned being a part of a big or small family. The experience and learning from your relatives.

2.       You experience of school life, school friends, sports, teachers anything that you can remember.

3.       Your college days’ experience, being in campus or that of hostel.

4.       Your initial job life struggles or learning. So on….

You can do this exercise writing your experience just in some simple bullet format.

For example,

# I have experience of completing my schooling from a government school.

# I have experience of being member of a big family.

# I have experience of being part of school cricket team.

# I have experience of college hostels so on and so forth…….

If you write down your all your experience in a sequential way from your childhood to current date, you will see that you have some unique experience, which you don’t see in any of your close group of people. That were the experience, which differentiate you from others, that way, you all together have different story to tell, in short you are unique and you deserve to be proud of yourself.